THIS!!! You're such a wonderfully smart, resilient young woman, who's prepared herself well -- for herself! There aren't a lot of people who'd have said, "Hold on a minute...I need some time to figure this out."
I think most folk would've immediately deferred to that doctor out of fear (which is why I think he tried to over-talk you), never investigating what, if any other options might've been available, particularly because, well you know, doctors are supreme beings who know everything and are never to be questioned.๐๐
I'm so glad your Mom's there with you! I'm sure it's as good for her as it is for you. Keep taking good care of yourself, Darlin'!!