Won't be me, Sis -- already planned it out both verbally, and IN WRITING. I will be cremated with my ashes divided into thirds: 1st third scattered on Edisto Beach in SC, from whence I came; 2nd third scattered in Key West, FL, a place that helped me seriously grow the woman I am today and 3rd third scattered off Bakau Beach in The Gambia, West Africa where I learned a great deal about what made me, ME! Got enough life insurance so that the husband and sons can do all of that -- on me (cuz I know they'll all outlive my cigarette-smokin' ass. What can I say? -- "You pick your poison!")